Can it truly be 'wrong', corny, silly or not butch enough to urge for romance long into the relationship? It feels so right to have your lover slip you a SMS or email that says, I desire you.
It feels so right to do the thing you know she likes, not that you think much of it, or even feel up to it, but you do, for her. I think we should never stop spoiling each other. Ever. Everyday should include two clear no question signs that your lover is the apple of your eye: one, something you do for her that you thought up, and something you KNOW she likes.
What to do for her, you say.... Well, I can tell you what to do for me:
Lean over and kiss my ear, and whisper something sexy - a promise that doesn't need to be kept but it feels so promising
Stroke my back as we fall asleep - it feels safe and soothing
Suggest dinner alone in the kitchen to candle light, even if you're just having bacon and eggs for dinner
Take a shower together and hold her like she is the most important person in the world, hold her like you'll die without her
At least once, let her know that you need her. Not that it's nice she is there, not that she makes you happy, but let the words come from your most vulnerable place and let her know you'll be so lost without her.
Look, romance is not dead, it just lays frozen under the winters cold ... and life is just too short to not give your heart and soul...even if you have to do it over an over again...
It's worth it to open up and give it all each time you love. It has to be worth it.
Gaymap
